Sugar joined his brother to bury his mom today next to her husband in a little grassy cemetery in the wilds of the Upper Midwest. His mom has been with us in a box on a bedroom shelf for the last 15 years, cared for and thought of, but it was time to put her ashes in the ground. I had visions of taking her to the wide-open ND plains and opening the box during a windy day but the brother needed a memorial, a place for future generations to come to when the genealogical urge strikes. I think she would have liked that, her sons coming together for her sake. Wonderful lady.